Ruby Beihoffer Is At Peace

There is much pain is watching a loved one die.  There is such a sense of powerlessness. It is that human thing about wanting control.  We see it in our every day lives and in the months and days before the death of a loved one.  Busy busy busy.   We are so important, controlling and so needed when we are making decisions that effect the life and death of a loved one.  We are so hopelessly shallow and self-centered.

A human soul is not ours to conquer, control or covet.  Rather, it is one to be nurtured, protected and always respected for its uniqueness and oneness with God.  It is never about us.

Ruby was a wonderful, caring Christian woman that was want to judge or criticize as she passed on with this legacy.  At times, her  non-confrontative  style allowed the opportunity for others to exercise control over important decisions in her life.  She would never rock the boat.  But Ruby is not to be judged.  No unkind word passed her lips.  Her love for her children and family emanated from her beautiful soul.  She understood so much beyond many around her-that love is about the other person always.

I will never be like this kind, gentle Christian.  I am humbled to light a candle in her honor.  She raised five children as a single mother and worked hard for their success every day.  She was simple in her wants but I believe left many opportunities on the table in deference to others.  She was so smart and intuitive.  She loved and understood your jokes, but never let you know it except through some slight smile or comment.  She loved her sweets, hated chocolate and pureed food.

We  miss you so much, Ruby.  You have taught us so much.  We love you so much.